28/10/09 Here you are standing on the border between pregnancy and birth. This means you stand on the border between ‘becoming’ a father and ‘being’ one. Perhaps by tomorrow morning your baby will be born. Can you see where ‘clarity’ is a guiding quality at this time? We hope you’ve worked through The Pink Kit [...]
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07/10/09 Phase #4 of pregnancy is sort of like the early part of pregnancy but sort of in reverse. Phase #1 was getting used to being pregnant. Phase #4 is getting used to being a father. Phase #4 focuses your attention on The Birth and being a father immediately after the birth. If you’re using [...]
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29 September 2009 I’m going to talk about both humor and delight in this entry. It’s easy to believe these are sort of alike but when you are becoming a father it’s important to understand the difference. Humor can range from telling a joke, watching a funny movie, giggling, laughing for no reason or chuckling [...]
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15 Sept 2009 One thing that happens during this phase (24-32 weeks) is that you become afraid for your baby … and sometimes your baby’s mother. There may be nothing bad happening at all yet in your mind you can imagine terrible things. This is where the quality of kindness excels at helping you face [...]
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20 August 2009 The period between 12 and 24 weeks is when you will begin to notice other fathers. Even if you have 6 kids already there are always things you want to learn, change or think about. In fact, once you become a dad you can become fascinated with fathering and the intricate ways [...]
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18 August 2009 We’ll now get stuck into Phase 2 of pregnancy for expectant fathers. Once the uterus rises above the pubic bone then women begin to show they are pregnant rather than just feeling ‘fat’. This also has an impact on men. Remember we discussed that men are ruled by their heart and chest? [...]
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10 Aug 2009 Before I go further I want to ask all and any of you who are reading this blog to join the conversation. Men don’t seem to have much of a clue as to what is expected of them and too many women seem to be angry with men for not knowing and [...]
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2 August 2009 Periodically we need to bring all these fatherhood qualities together for you. In Phase 1 of pregnancy in your journey through ‘becoming’ a father to ‘being’ a father you are being asked to choose your own personal growth because your baby and the woman in your life are now on a biological [...]
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25 July 2009 During this very early phase many of these fatherhood qualities seem a bit vague or generalized yet each of them is important to you, your baby and the woman you are with (whether you live together or not she will always be the mother of your child). To understand how these words [...]
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21 July 2009 One thing you need to understand is that learning how-to be a father is sort of different for men than for women. Women are physically pregnant and can never take one nano-second vacation from that state. This forces them to go through the transition from ‘being’ a woman to ‘becoming’ a mother [...]
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