28/10/09 Here you are standing on the border between pregnancy and birth. This means you stand on the border between ‘becoming’ a father and ‘being’ one. Perhaps by tomorrow morning your baby will be born. Can you see where ‘clarity’ is a guiding quality at this time? We hope you’ve worked through The Pink Kit [...]
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24/10/09 Humor, humor and more humor. That’s about it. If you cannot see all the little mundane daily life’s events and happenings with humor then you’re grouchy! Stop that right now. Look, life isn’t about making you happy. Life is a gift you get to live. You have some control over what happens to you [...]
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22/10/09 This fatherhood quality does not reach its peak until your baby becomes mobile and then you’d better have this quality sorted out. In the last blog we talked about two types of men/fathers … those who are very involved with their family and those who are disconnected. There are basically two types of mothers/women: [...]
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14/10/09 In the last entry we discussed how your awareness is deepening. This happens when you can pay attention to greater detail. Any skill we learn is composed of small components. We don’t often recognize that. If you play hoops, you know how you handle the ball, what you spot, the velocity or spin are [...]
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14/10/09 Now that you are somewhere between 32 weeks and The Birth, this is the time to hone your awareness. There are several areas that you, as a father-to-be, need to grow so that you become aware of your increased awareness. This should not be unfamiliar. Whenever you learn something new there is a starting [...]
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12/10/09 Depending on whether your baby’s mother is 32 weeks pregnant or 40, patience will vary. As you get closer to The Birth the less patient everyone becomes. This is a natural emotional transition from being pregnant to wanting to get the pregnancy over with and to meet this little person. Somewhere in the middle [...]
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09/10/09 Your baby’s mother is 32 weeks pregnant or more in phase #4 of pregnancy. This means you come move from ‘becoming’ a father to ‘being’ one any day. Sure everyone would like a pregnancy to go to ‘term’. Eighty percent of women give birth two weeks either side of their estimated ‘due date’. A [...]
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07/10/09 Phase #4 of pregnancy is sort of like the early part of pregnancy but sort of in reverse. Phase #1 was getting used to being pregnant. Phase #4 is getting used to being a father. Phase #4 focuses your attention on The Birth and being a father immediately after the birth. If you’re using [...]
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29 September 2009 I’m going to talk about both humor and delight in this entry. It’s easy to believe these are sort of alike but when you are becoming a father it’s important to understand the difference. Humor can range from telling a joke, watching a funny movie, giggling, laughing for no reason or chuckling [...]
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25 September 2009 As I came to this entry and it’s title I had to laugh. Because we are focusing on the one path that you must now begin to develop … preparing for birth … I had a cartoon in my head. I saw you working through the DVD in the Pink Kit Package, [...]
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